Tag: Dan Allender

Identity, Relationships

Is it Lust or Sexual Desire?

Many Christian circles rightly beat the drum of Jesus’ words in Matthew 5 that if you even look at a woman with lustful intent, you’ve committed adultery with her; even though you never touched or were near her.  The problem is not all sexual arousal is driven by lust. Our […]

Identity, Mentoring Helps

Living an Examined Life

“Most men live an unexamined life.”  Dan Allender Ask most any man how they feel and they are at a loss for words. “I have no idea.”  That’s often my default when asked. At least it used to be. In their book, “How We Love”, authors Milan and Kay Yerkovich, […]